I guess I must be the exception. My kid rode BMX until he was ten, around then he showed interest in dirtbikes, I was already prepared and had a 110 fourstroke semi auto in mind. We picked it up and I taught him how to ride. He lost interest in 6 months or so, so I sold it. A short while later he asked for another one, I told him it needed to be a clutch bike and we picked up a 125. He loves it. And I get to rip around the neighborhood with him and have quality time with him doing something we both like. He also rides our grom around with the neighbor kids.
Growing up I cannot remember a time where my old man didnt have some sort of harley or cruiser around, I had dirtbikes, switched to sport bikes at 18, and now ride a harley as much as I can. Sure, people are dumb and get distracted, Ive had close calls, but part of riding is being aware and watching everything around you. When my kid reaches the age where he wants a harley or sportbike, ill make him take an MSF class, insure it, help him finance it, and drive him to purchase it. Ive pounded it into his head the be vigilant and respect the machine.
Being a dad has its “oh crap” moments, but in the end Id rather cheer him on and teach him the safe way to do things than have his know it all evil knieval friends teach him.