What about the 4th graders you pulled up and away from their friends? Now you bring back 2, probably more talented kids back, that leads to less playing time for the rest of the kids. Do the 4th graders now get to go back to their old teams to be with the friends they left behind? This could cause a domino effect. I’ve coached multiple sports for many years and seen the same thing. I wouldn’t do it. You did say it right “It’s a shame.” good luck
Don’t rosters have to be submitted by Jan 1 for winter sports?