My father was laid to rest yesterday on a beautiful sunny spring like day. he was laid near the grave site of his mother, who was buried some fifty odd years earlier, on a hillside over looking the river in the area that was his childhood home.
Putz had a heck of a going out party. many of his friends and family paid their respects to him and offered hugs to the rest of his family. thank you.
it’s a tough deal letting go of a loved one. I hoped somehow, some way, I’d get to avoid going through that, but in the back of my mind, I knew some day I’d have to say goodbye.
we are doing ok. I mean that. there will be good days and times when a memory will bring a tear of joy to our eyes, as Putz was every where.
each new season will bring with it constant reminders of pops. he enjoyed so many things with us and didn’t want to miss out on anything.
from watching his grandson Sam play pee-wee hockey to smelting in the spring. a summer boat ride on Red lake, or a small crappie hole.
from the soup shoot in the fall and deer hunting in November and then to ice fishing in his new ice castle fish house.
pop was there in between as well, on his cell phone checking in every few days. I’ll never forget his opening line on the phone, always the same…”Yeah!….What’s happenin?”
I hope I can always hear his voice in my head and heart, the way it was, unique, just like the man himself.
thank you all for being part of his life and for taking the time to read this.
thank you to those of you who were with us this last week in person and in prayer.
it’s time to move on now. there’s a lot of spring late ice fishing to do. Putz wouldn’t like seeing me sit around moping.
he’s probably pissed it took this long to get back to the things we love to do.
I have one more house to move off the lake. I will do that tomorrow.
after that, I’m going fishing, so if anybody wants to chase some crappies, give me a ring and see what’s on the menu.
atv’s and portables are a safe bet, while for the next couple days snowmobiles might be ok, I’m thinking trucks will be a go for a couple weeks yet.
it’s time to fish!
Rest in peace pop. you earned it!