Tony,
When you compare country life with City, there must be SOME things you DONT miss. I also lived on a farm, and loved it, but the commute to any gainfull employment was 45 mnts one way. Then, goods and services were also out of reach. Sure, that made you plan your trips well, but it sure is nice to be able to just run down to the local store without it being an exscursion. And you did it for your family. I have extensive family scattered throuought Iowa. Thier livelyhoods are all ag-related, and they are all hurting. My cousin hanged himself during the 80’s farm crisis, I think he took the “get big or get out” mantra a little too literal. Others are barely getting by. If it wasnt for inherited land they are on, they wouldnt make it. There is NO future for youngens in that environment. Since they have taken the CULTURE out of agriculture, and the AG is now missing from the culture, whats left? You can always go back. But for now, take what the city has to offer. Get your kids educated, and socialized with others. One thing I learned was that now that I am a city slicker, I appreciate the outdoors more. I am now more active in conservation efforts than I was when I was a country boy. Time outdoors, in a countrysetting is now worth as much as a pay check!! I take what they have to offer in the City, but still realize the best part of living here is leaving for the weekend!!!
It does take some getting used to though. Here are some tips to adjust: Red one piece long johns are NOT fashionable. Carhart wannabe workwear is IN. If you havent found out already….you can no longer shoot dinner from the front porch. The Police take that very seriously. If you want to blend in NEVER carry anything in the bed of your pickup. Those are waxwagons, and no longer used to haul anything except groceries. And….they made me get rid of my Rooster, but I found out, I can have hens within the city limits!!! But seriously…you can take the boy from the farm, but you cant take the farm from the boy. My Dad of 76 years old left the farm for Korea. He came back, moved to the city to attend college. He got a job in industry, and through the years, raised 7 kids. Two went to med school, and 2 own thier own businness’s
In contrast, his brother stayed on the farm in Iowa. He died in his 50’s, literally worked himself to death. Some would say, the product of farm life is its people. It sure was a humble way to make a living, but those days are gone.
Your experience made you what you are. Your kids are now within reach of an experience they wouldnt have had before. Now its up to you to teach them BOTH. In the process, it will make you a whole person. Good Luck to you!
TreeHugger
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February 21, 2009 at 8:49 pm
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