You know… there is no “answer” to the riddle of grief but your request seems such a modest one that I, for one, can carry out. Know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and the families of your “fallen” friends. God Bless!
My best guess is that you have been “spoofed”. Spoofing is when another person’s computer is infected with a mass-mailing worm and your address is on their computer. The worm then randomly adds your e-mail address to the “From” line of every message it sends making it look like you have sent e-mails when you have not. It wouldn’t hurt to run a virus scan, though.
I’m no guru by any stretch of anyone’s imagination but were any of the “intended recipients” (ie: rfc822) from your contact list or address book? If you did not open anything you should be o.k. I would, however, inform the Rochester ISP
You go, Girl!!!!!! It’s very hard for me to accept that in this day and age there are still those with the “women belong in the kitchen” mentality and are dense enough to actually voice it. Just consider the source and move on. I’m new to this site and have enjoyed your posts… keep up the good work!!