I too am really lucky it sounds like, my father in law is one of my best friends (he is only 6 years older than me, which is a whole other story). My mother in law is our savior! Hey Mom, can you take the kid to the orthodontist…….sure. Hey Mom, we have a sick kid……..no problem. They are great. Hunting and fishing buddy, baby sitter, great people.
I do truly feel lucky. I hope you make it through!!! I feel for you though, it would suck to not like them and have to see em!