Instead of losing points by not going or being grumpy all day during the ceremony and reception, see the opportunity that this is providing you. While openers are fun cause the ducks are dumb and its a big party, with global warming they can also be too hot and not that great. I’d say go to the wedding but on the same day you agree to go, bring up the fact that you’d really like to hunt Arkansas this winter or Canada in October or wherever it is you’ve always wanted to go. Take it from a guy who’s been married ten years..it is way better to score points than hold your ground. The old addage, the more you give, the more you receive is very true….and yes we’re still talking about hunting here!!