Oofda, this will be a very short cliff note version of my thoughts. Cant help myself this AM…
My oldest of 3 ojibwe daughters is one of those freebies eluded to getting a free ride right now at a fairly prestious(at least for this northside dude) private university out west, school itself offers a certain amount of these scholarships and she was lucky enough to get it. No way in hel! we could afford $75k+ a year otherwise. First gen college kiddo, most think kids going off become libs in college, I find mine doing quite the opposite, the realities of our and others (culutres,countries, world) past and present can hit hard to those soaking in the information. She was going for poly sci but thats fading the more she realizes how F’d our political system is and how F’d the rez system is. Where exactly does one go from that? Seriously, the comments here of cutting off funding is asinine, it will never happen rn in our current state of affairs, the repercussions on small town America to absorb those messes would be unimaginable.
Most of history was destruction of peoples for a long time, think King Syria in the BC of the timeline was the first to start offering negotiations of some sort to those being conquered, why kill everyone when they could be of value and/or you wouldnt have to worry them coming for your head down the road, literally. Worse thing we did was stick an uncivilized culture onto these rez lands, assimilation doesnt take place in this scenario and we end up with what we have now. These folks were primitive by most accounts and we expect them to join modern times while being separated, and the few assimilation programs like the boarding schools were simply train wrecks that wouldve soured any mouth.
Generational trauma is real. The behaviors one developed to cope with their circumstances are incredibly unhealthy, and they do get passed along, and it wasnt that many handfuls of generations ago. Imagine any of your precious Grandmas telling stories at dinner of men riding thru camp/town at night when you and your sisters grabbed hollowed out reeds to sneak into the water at night and breathe underwater until they passed not knowing what was at the surface when you came back up, Ive heard it from the source, it changes you. No police to call, no national guard to come in to save your butt, noone to report to after whatever happened. How would you feel as a man, a father, cant fight, no work, wtf exactly do you do, does it make you bitter, how does it change your outlook on life, on your kids, wife? That was some time ago, but those times develop some really intense toxic co dependencies on substances, systems, etc.
IDFK where to go from here, most in it dfk, but being kind and at least have an understanding helps everyone involved. Bearcat is spot on, worry about your own and if you dont know then you simply dont. Short conversations with natives at gas stations, boat ramps, etc doesnt put anyone in the know and like all small talk there is always more to the story.
My Uncle might run for a seat on the rez council where hes at. He was gonna ask the Chief to see what he wants him to do. Being an ornery elder who drinks and swears too much told him hed have to dial it back a bit. He called me a dildo and laughed. Good dude, hes definetily one whos seen it all from all sides, will be interesting hearing some more inside info if that ever comes to fruition.