Tragedy

  • chadmayer
    Gretna, NE
    Posts: 136
    #1310709

    My heart is broken! We were fishing Cattail Lake near Webster, SD. It was our last day of fishing on this week long trip. My father-in-law and his brother Bob were in one boat and my son and cousin were with me in my boat. We were casting cranks and twister tail jigs in the trees and caught some nice fish. In fact Bob caught a 23 inch walleye. We were not catching a lot of fish so my father-in-law and Bob suggested we move to Waubay and finish our trip there. My cousin had just caught a 22 inch walleye and we all agreed to give Cattail a little more time. We decided to go up the lake and they stayed in this area and tried trolling some cranks. About a half hour later, I called Bob and told them “let’s go”. It was about a 20 minute boat ride for us. When we got to the ramp a Sheriff was pulling into the ramp area with lights on. I didn’t think anything of it. We pulled our boat out and I noticed the sheriff looking out over the water. He was pacing back and forth. I was starting to get a little worried because Tom and Bob were closer to the ramp and should have been there by now. I asked the Sheriff if there was a problem and he said yes, someone found a body floating in the water. My heart sunk. He said they were performing CPR on a boat and it would be there shortly. I couldn’t handle it, I sent my son to the truck and asked my cousin to go to the dock and give me nod if it was them. The boat arrived and he gave me the nod. I truly thought that I had lost both of them. I walked toward the boat and noticed my father-in-law standing in shock in the back of the boat. The others were doing CPR on Bob. Life flight came in and they tried for an hour to get him back. They were unsuccessful.
    On the way in, they hit a submerged tree. It threw both of them out the boat. Neither were wearing a life jacket. They both struggled in the water for a little while. A boater heard the accident and was able to rescue my father-in-law. It was already to late for Bob. I will never be the same. I have guilt, a bunch of “what ifs”. Tom is devastated. He lost his brother (his best friend). Please say a prayer for our families. Go home and tell your kids, family and friends that you love them everyday. I look back on Saturday and remember Bob catching a 23 inch walleye on this spot I showed them. He said “Chad, thank you for showing me this spot!” I of course after a few minutes said “Bob” he looked over and I flipped him off. He loved it! Started laughing and told Tom “I love it when they cuss me!”
    Stay safe out there this summer. Please wear a life jacket. If you don’t want to wear it all the time, at least wear it when you’re motoring across the lake. Also, wear the kill switch strap around your wrist. It could save your life! God bless!

    kooty
    Keymaster
    1 hour 15 mins to the Pond
    Posts: 18101
    #780805

    I’m so sorry to hear this very sad news Chad!! God bless you and your family!

    redneck
    Rosemount
    Posts: 2627
    #780806

    That is truly a tragedy. Your family will be in my prayers in the days ahead. There is a message there for all of us too. That was a case where a life jacket would have made a huge difference yet most of us ignor the facts and leave them on the seats. I know I am the most guilty of anyone. I am sorry for your loss.
    Rich

    Pete Bauer
    Stillwater, MN
    Posts: 2599
    #780810

    I agree with Rich regarding the life jacket and I’m just as guilty.

    My condolences to you and your family Chad

    hawkeye27
    Posts: 324
    #780811

    My heart and prayers go out to you and the family. I may not know you but if there is anything other than prayers a fellow fisherman can do shoot me an email. Thoughts and prayers be with you and your family and god bless you all……..

    Brian Klawitter
    Keymaster
    Minnesota/Wisconsin Mississippi River
    Posts: 59992
    #780812

    Ugg! Sorry to hear this.

    I hope others will hear your message about PFD’s and kill switches!

    wade_kuehl
    Northwest Iowa
    Posts: 6167
    #780814

    I’m very sorry to hear this, Chad. As sad as the story is, you are helping others by sharing it here. It’s a good reminder to us all to wear a life jacket on the water. Thoughts and prayers are with your family.

    big_g
    Isle, MN
    Posts: 22380
    #780820

    So sorry to hear this… prayers for all affected.

    Glen

    Brian Robinson
    central Neb
    Posts: 3914
    #780826

    Chad,

    I just still can’t believe this, even hearing it from you first hand. Unreal. I’ll be thinking about you guys a lot. Let me know when I can get ahold of Tom.

    As always, just let me know if I can help in any way.

    Hunting4Walleyes
    MN
    Posts: 1552
    #780838

    Sorry to hear this. My prayers go out to you and your family.

    farmboy1
    Mantorville, MN
    Posts: 3668
    #780841

    Sorry to hear this. Thoughts and prayers from my family to your.

    zachary fries
    Central Nebraska
    Posts: 1435
    #780852

    You and your family will be in our prayers. God Bless you and yours Chad!

    Ben Garver
    Hickman, Nebraska
    Posts: 3149
    #780880

    Chad, I’m still at a loss for words. I’m so sorry. You and your family will be in my thoughts. Take care and just let your IDO family know if there is anything we can do for you. I promise you and all my friends and family that my life jacket will be worn anytime I’m on plane from this day forward. I hope all others here will do the same. Take care my friend.

    nick
    Lakeville, MN
    Posts: 4977
    #780882

    Thanks for sharing what no doubt isn’t a easy story to tell, we’ll send some prayers for your family.

    jeff_jensen
    cassville ,wis
    Posts: 3053
    #780886

    I am so sorry! Words are no good here. God speed!

    shadrap23
    Ramsey, MN
    Posts: 178
    #780931

    Prayers Sent Chad…

    Thank you for sharing this difficult story.

    jebb-hatch
    Kearney, Nebraska
    Posts: 111
    #780937

    Chad so sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

    Husker26
    Gretna, NE
    Posts: 143
    #780997

    Thoughts and prayers coming your way! So sorry to hear about this.

    hunter_aug
    Holdrege, Ne
    Posts: 48
    #781029

    Chad
    Tom and you and your family will be in my prayers. I’m sorry to hear of your loss.

    duckhuntrrus
    Lexington Ne
    Posts: 142
    #781048

    Chad,
    My families thoughts and prayers are with you. Thank you for sharing this story.

    Mike W
    MN/Anoka/Ham lake
    Posts: 13292
    #781141

    Sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing and I hope it will help convince others to keep there life jackets on while in the boat. Think I will be purchasing a couple more inflatables this summer for my guests in the boat.

    TMFLDEM
    Posts: 28
    #781445

    Chad, I am soo sorry man. Chris called me and told me the news, what a terrible accident. Some things in life are soo tough to understand, I hope you and your family are blessed in the future, and tell Tom to keep his chin up, better times are on the horizon..

    djorg
    Central City, NE
    Posts: 358
    #781463

    May the prayer chain not be broken. Thoughts and prayers for all.

    God Bless

    chadmayer
    Gretna, NE
    Posts: 136
    #782017

    Thanks everybody for your support. This has been a very difficult week. This picture was taken the night before the accident. Bob is on the left holding the big walleye of the trip. RIP

    boos1906
    Posts: 643
    #782088

    Chad sorry to hear about your loss. Thanks for shareing this story with us. I will definately be starting to wear my life jacket when I’m on plane in the boat. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this difficult time. That’s a real nice fish that bobs holding up.

    perch_44
    One step ahead of the Warden.
    Posts: 1589
    #786342

    thats a shame, and my condolences go out to you and your family.

    i will be the first to admit, i rarely wear my lifejacket, unless its cold. I do try to remember to always wear the kill switch though.

    i will make a concious effort to wear my pfd while under way.

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