Man Randy – I feel for you. My sisters and I are caring for an aging parent as well although not to that extent. Not presuming tough financial circumstances, but is there any assistance available for additional care options to come in for your dad? VA? Even if temporary it would be worth it. I don’t think I’d be telling you anything you don’t already know, but this will wear you down to a nub.
The VA is a rant for a different day. Buy a lottery ticket and your odds of help is dramatically increased. Though after a couple years of absolute BS playing their games, I finally was told he was denied assistance benefits because I am his financial POA and his primary care giver. In their eyes, conflict of interest.
Care-giver burnout???? That was 4-1/2years ago. He will never pass. I’m very sure his last mission in life is to drive me nuts. Anyone that knows me, knows 1 thing to be absolute with me. I’m a sore azz loser, so I go down in a blaze refusing to lose.
Bought every dam size, brand, color, his/hers diapers. What worthless crap. Had two daughters, raised a nephew and niece, plus a grandson. Never had diaper issues like this. He only eats a meal about every week or two. You would think there is nothing to blow through them