You need to have them adjust their IR settings as well. It will be a combination of different settings that may give each of you the ability to remove MOST of the interference.
If you are in shallower water, say 25′ or less, the FLX28 could be changed to low power to reduce some of its interference.
One other thing, Make sure that yours is set to its narrowest cone angle. A wide cone angle will pick up more interference.