<div class=”d4p-bbt-quote-title”>FishBlood&RiverMud wrote:</div>
Would you like to be my babysitter this week? Make sure my risk choices are OK with you?
What the hell prompted this arrogant response?
If you feel there’s nothing to learn here than move on.
You, like me, take on a lot of risks outdoors… Especially when solo. We also invest time and money understanding how to prepare for all that can go wrong. We are probably considered experts in the things we enjoy that include risks.
We have undoubtedly taken plenty of risk and survived only to learn how to be safer in the future.
You and I would not introduce the same risk onto others that we might invite onto ourselves. Only with risk prevention measures would we, with extreme caution, invite others aboard those risks. You don’t get there without experience and you don’t get experience without failure. We’ve both done incredibly unsafe things in the past.
I will not endanger my child or others. I also educate myself as much as possible, within our knowledge, to keep others safe.
Then, there are those who live ignorant of major risks. Who do not pursue learning about measures to prevent that risk. Who endanger their children, knowingly or through ignorance.
My brother asked for my advice Monday, “am I crazy to get a small wheeler for my boy”… He is not wrong for being concerned… We grew up on much much bigger machines, made many mistakes taught us to be concerned offering the same risk to our children. Coaching and training and experience will be the only thing that keeps then safe. Yeah the smallest wheeler we drove wasn’t less than 400cc… And brother we would’ve rolled a 90cc too!!
Why did I lash with an arrogant response. Because we didn’t get here mistake free. You pointed that out yourself.
OMG I feel bad about this situation. I still haven’t read any articles but from the responses I gather everyone died. If the parents lived I sure hope they see jail for child endangerment.
I feel totally responsible for the positions I put people in. A week ago I was watching my buddies every step to make sure he didn’t get hurt. He wasn’t always on high alert and he needed to be where we were. It is dangerous country! Country I’ll gladly enjoy by myself… When I bring someone else along I feel 100% responsible for their safety and the education that leads to their safely. Why, because I know better and they may not yet.
All safety and emergency equipment I pack for me and him.
Now, should a soccer mom family choose to walk this same property…. They’re legally entitled to do just that with as little precautions necessary… Don’t think I’m going to be lenient of them endangering others. I also don’t feel it necessary to create laws on top of laws to help keep them folks from endangering themselves and others.
The original post just seemed soap box like and it rubbed me the wrong way.
I maybe understand now your only trying to shed light on the safety measures they should’ve taken to bring the family back to shore. That’s great. But this family wouldn’t even look at a boat weight capacity or occupancy sticker. Your won’t be reaching your target audience from ido….i.e. the next entirely ignorant family decision.
An experienced risk taker like yourself has knowledge miles above this family, I recognize that. So my conclusion is that the only way to protect that family from this situation is to prevent the situation through legal access to the risk. I believe in personal responsibility and being tolerant of other people’s choices. I don’t want more laws and loopholes to jump through to take risk. More restrictions on the outdoors I enjoy, especially the outdoors visited be few, because of their inherent dangers… Them outdoors are the most beautiful to me.
Peace