A “Drive by Society”

  • arklite881south
    Posts: 5660
    #1291834

    I share this story to bring awareness to increasingly dangerous conditions with heavy snow creating hidden slush pockets on Northern Minnesota lakes. I also find myself saddened to what seems to be an accepted self serving society we are living within. Hey don’t get me wrong I like to take care of my family to and look out for our personal well being. Still is it truly astonishing when someone actually goes out of his or her way to help another in need in today’s world?

    Case in point; Today one of our labs was barking on our deck, and I noticed a sled in the back of Tilson Creek. This was about 200-300 yards off Hwy 11. I saw from my house that a guy seemed to be stuck in the slush and trying to dig his sled out. His dog was laying in the snow about 50 yards away. I told my daughter who was home from college that we are heading out into the slush and to gear up!!

    We walked through I’d guess 300 yards or so of mid-thigh slush before arriving to an elderly man and his dog. The man was iced up and his dog was shivering cold. He looked at me as though I was “Peter” walking through the slush to lend a helping hand. With smiles on our faces and strong backs his look of disbelief is the very reason I share this story.

    I honestly believe this fella didn’t believe another person in this society would willingly “slush walk” to help him and his dog. Thats sad. There were many…….MANY vehicles that drove right over the bridge and never bothered to stop and see if he was ok. NOT ONE person.

    As it turns out the man appeared to be around 70 and his dog kept jumping on his half sunk sled to try keep from freezing his paws. If you’ve ever been in this prediciment you know it is a two man job. In this case we had 3 people. My daughter, myself and this thankful man!!

    We managed to get his sled out of the slush and built a ice platform in which we were able to then spin out his track. He’ll be able to get out there tomorrow to bring his sled back home……Where it belongs.

    Are we living in a society where lending a helping hand to another in need should be rewarded? I urge people to step up beyond generally accepted society behavior. You may be the guy in need some day.

    As we walked off the ice the man was visibly exhausted. He told me to go ahead and I said Nah….I’m tired too. I stayed back with him as he worked his way to shore. He proceeded to talk with a sense of excitement in his voice about his 1 year old German Shepard. I took interest in his dog and told him he is beautiful and has a wonderful demeanor. He smiled and told me of his training and exercise program he has him on. He told me how he doesn’t feed him table scraps……

    As we got to our trucks he had a tear in his eye and took off his frozen glove to shake my hand. I followed his lead and took off my iced glove to shake his skin to skin…….Man to man. He insisted that my daughter and I come over to his house so he could make us a dinner to thank us for our generosity. I said he surely didn’t need to do that and we enjoyed the exercise. Still he went on to tell us that he missed the conversation….

    As Lindsey and I jumped in the truck Lindsey looked at me and said…….We’re going RIGHT!?! I said it sounds like he might have lost his wife or something huh? She said that is sad. I said you know what is sad Lindsey. NOT ONE person took the time to see if that guy needed a helping hand. That is sad.

    I’m happy to report he and his dog are safe and sound. His sled is fine and will come off the ice tomorrow. For those of you that hold the attitude of “Got himself into trouble….He’ll get himself out” I hope you don’t need a hand someday.

    Keep this in mind as I close this story. You seldom know the whole story. This guy was out retrieving some Tamarack for his wood stove. He told me it burns HOT and he likes to burn it. I presume he lives alone with his dog. The sled might not be important to you or me, but that old sled might have been a pretty invaluable piece of equipment to that man.

    Please be safe out there guys and don’t pass up the chance to help someone in need. By the way the fella called me this evening and thanked me a hundred times. I told him I was taking pictures to help others avoid a similiar experience. He then……INVITED me to go out there with him tomorrow to get the rest of the story!! LOL!! I of course accepted his generous offer and told him I’d love too.




    chirp
    Rochester
    Posts: 1471
    #1143775

    Chris, thanks for the reminder. We all need that helping hand at some point. You and your Daughter are good people. I’m sure you made a new friend today. Thanks again, Chuck

    weldon
    Rochester, Mn
    Posts: 304
    #1143777

    Chris,

    Thanks for the great story. I agree completely that many folks choose to drive by instead of lending a hand. I think most are simply too busy and in a rush…

    I have stories as well about helping folks out along the road the past couple of years. One case where a semi truck/trailer ventured too close to the edge of the road and got pulled off by the slope of the shoulder. Another night, two assists with the first out of gas and a really emotional wife and the other was three 20 year olds pulling a donor mustang from the scrap yard to their home and had 3 out of 4 flat tires! All three situations really appreciated the help.

    I am a bit curious why there is so much slush out on the ice… Is this due to a couple of days warm-up and the water just gets insulated?

    Chuck Melcher
    SE Wisconsin, Racine County
    Posts: 1966
    #1143778

    Good job….and imagine the example you set with your daughter and how that will carry over for years… and effect many others over and over. Sounds to me like you both got as much out of the experience as the stranded man did. that, and you can never beat good karma!

    mark-bruzek
    Two Harbors, MN
    Posts: 3863
    #1143779

    You are all too correct. It is plain sad. More than once this winter I have turned back on a highway to assist.

    I too have been there myself needing help, people simply do not stop.

    Numerous times I have asked if someone needed help, even if they don’t there is generally some good conversation either way.

    Im not sure if it is selfishness or ignorance, none the less it is just one of many things that needs to change in todays society.

    Jeremiah Shaver
    La Crosse, WI
    Posts: 4941
    #1143781

    an amazing act – and a very humbling story for many of us to read I’m sure.

    DrewH
    s/w WI.
    Posts: 1404
    #1143791

    Quote:


    This is hands down the best post I’ve seen on this site in a long time. Thanks for taking the time to help that fella out of a pinch and thanks for sharing!


    X 2

    Brian Hoffies
    Land of 10,000 taxes, potholes & the politically correct.
    Posts: 6843
    #1143792

    1) The old boy needed the help.

    2) Great lesson for your daughter.

    3) Huge amounts of good Karma coming your way.

    jeff_huberty
    Inactive
    Posts: 4941
    #1143794

    I feel like you helped me out today.

    Thanks Chris

    Dave Koonce
    Moderator
    Prairie du Chien Wi.
    Posts: 6946
    #1143799

    Thanks for a great story Chris !!

    To often we get caught up in all the problems in our own world and it gets to be tunnel vision..

    Great eye opener buddy !!!

    jrholland93
    Posts: 59
    #1143811

    Awesome stuff, Chris. Well done. I spent a couple of hours on the lake on Friday night, well after dark, with a good friend, digging out my own sled. I felt like I was about to have a heart-attack, so I’m sure that old boy REALLY appreciated the helping hand!

    It truly is a sad society we live in. Hard to believe that people won’t go out of their way to help others…

    p4walleye
    Rochester, MN
    Posts: 733
    #1143848

    Nicely done! I love good Dad stories! I had similar thoughts the other day at Target. I had my 2 girls, and from the check-out isle I noticed an older gentleman trying to get from his motorized cart back up to his walker by himself, and it wasn’t happening. I watched about 10-15 people walk by this man, and nobody, offered help or did anything. I was shocked. Took both my little ones over there, we all said hello, helped him up, chatted with him for about 5 minutes, asked if he needed any help with anything else, he told us some jokes,-and had a giant smile the whole time.

    arklite881south
    Posts: 5660
    #1143856

    Quote:


    Nicely done! I love good Dad stories! I had similar thoughts the other day at Target. I had my 2 girls, and from the check-out isle I noticed an older gentleman trying to get from his motorized cart back up to his walker by himself, and it wasn’t happening. I watched about 10-15 people walk by this man, and nobody, offered help or did anything. I was shocked. Took both my little ones over there, we all said hello, helped him up, chatted with him for about 5 minutes, asked if he needed any help with anything else, he told us some jokes,-and had a giant smile the whole time.


    PRICELESS!! Cost you nothing earned you and your kids rewards not measurable in $$.

    vikefanmn77
    Northfield,MN
    Posts: 1493
    #1143903

    Not everyone would drive by, there are still decent people out there.

    A few days ago, on Fox Lake, my son and I were on our way back to the launch when we spotted a couple teenagers trying to dig out their new Audi from a drift on the lake. There was no doubt that the vehicle would get stuck out there, and they probably shouldn’t have attempted it, but having the opportunity to help someone out, and to teach my son a lesson in “Mn nice” we offered help and got him out of there. They thanked us on our way out, and I just told them to remember it and pay it forward.

    The world sucks, indeed, but its not all bad.

    arklite881south
    Posts: 5660
    #1143945

    Nope it surely isn’t all bad. Just 100% of the people that passed up this guy and his dog yesterday. Morale of the story is to to take a step beyond the “Norm”.

    patk
    Nisswa, MN
    Posts: 1997
    #1144011

    Great job Chris!!!! Acts like that are seeming fewer and farther between. Growing up in North Dakota it was an unwritten rule that you stopped to see if people needed help. Now after living in the cities for over a decade I’ve kind of lost faith.

    People seem to look at me funny when I get out of my car to help a stuck vehicle for a stranger. My parents taught me, “that’s just what you do”.

    Awesome job and will bet your daughter will keep this lesson for years

    arklite881south
    Posts: 5660
    #1144019

    He called me about an hour ago wanting to make sure I knew he was going to be a little late for our “Slush Date” LOL!! He didn’t want me to miss out on the ending success story.

    mike_leclaire
    Grand Rapids, MN
    Posts: 412
    #1144027

    Way to go Chris, good thing you were willing to help he may have never got that sled out on his own.

    p4walleye
    Rochester, MN
    Posts: 733
    #1144033

    Quote:


    Growing up in North Dakota it was an unwritten rule that you stopped to see if people needed help.


    same in South Dakota!!!

    wannaplay
    Posts: 149
    #1144064

    I cant wait to fish with you Chris.

    arklite881south
    Posts: 5660
    #1144089

    Quote:


    I cant wait to fish with you Chris.


    Let’s stay out of the slush!!

    bassn7
    Bruce,WI
    Posts: 776
    #1144149

    At 62 I’ve been helped out of some dumb things I helped create, so when ever I see anyone in need I try to offer help too,this is a great story and I hope to meet you some time and thanks for the info last summer when I was looking for the moxies!
    Stan

    bosman
    DeSoto, WI
    Posts: 914
    #1144193

    I recently watched the movie “Crash” as part of a research paper on diversity. Chris, your story was VERY refreshing to read after watching that movie.

    suzuki
    Woodbury, Mn
    Posts: 18537
    #1144461

    Two weeks ago I pulled in to a gas station to fuel up. There was a guy there tryint to start his sled at the pump. I finished fueling up, went inside to pay, then back out to my truck. I noticed the guy was almost completly exhausted and had taken off his sledding gear because of it. I had one foot in the truck then my better judgement took over. I noticed he had an older Polaris 500 like one I used to have and they were prone to flood. I told him to hold the gas to the bar and I pulled it started in 2 pulls. He couldnt believe it. At that point I just smiled and left. He was still standing there in utter amazement as I left the lot.

    mbenson
    Minocqua, Wisconsin
    Posts: 3842
    #1144473

    WTG Chris!!!!

    Suzuki, you da MAN!!!

    Mark

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