Just A Growing Up Story

  • bret_clark
    Sparta, WI
    Posts: 9362
    #1270981

    The year is long, long ago before hitting my teens.
    Sitting along the river bank watching low hanging branches being tugged at by the current during the spring run off would put my mind into a trance. The new spring sun brought warmth to my face while the mind wandered. At times the thoughts ran so deep that it would take an alarming motion or sound to bring the human vessel back to a state of reality. Sometimes the commotion would be a small landslide as the current would claim more soil from an undercut bank, or maybe it would be a tree on its way down that had no more earth to grab with its root system, but the best way to be woken from deep thought was the ringing of the bell clipped to the end of a fishing rod which was placed into the fork of a perfectly cut branch holding the rod upright while soaking a glob of crawlers, cut bait or grandma’s homemade dough balls on the end of the line. Who would have thought it was all leading up to a passion?

    These were the days when a kid would be seen on weekends in our neighborhood riding a bike for all they were worth while carrying a bucket filled with tackle, lunch and sodas in one hand and a fist full of rods in the other. Amazing what we could carry as kids on a bike while peddling for the river.
    With legs in motion and a face full of wind anticipation road high thinking of what could be. Maybe a battle with the biggest swimming whiskered critter you laid eyes on, possibly a mess of gills, maybe a tangle with a lunging, hissing snapper, maybe an encounter with a snake, coon, possum, deer or whatever may happen along the path leading to a favorite fishing hole. How many times will a kid be startled by flushing ducks from a puddle in the woods while there minds run wild? Almost every time!

    There was always a great feeling of relief to arrive and see you were the first and had a favorite spot to yourself. The feeling however did not last long as the heart pumped a little quicker and adrenaline coursed through the veins while whittling a pointed end on a stick soon to be a rod holder with your handy dandy pocket knife, baiting up hooks and casting the offerings into turbulent waters near snags and deep holes. Ahhhh…your fishing now!

    While bank side time slipped past in a hurry. Soon you would be skipping rocks across the water, one, two three…ya, a three skipper, gotta get four now were the thoughts while looking for another perfectly flat stone. School and parents (a kids troubles) slipped the mind and the imagination would roam rampant. The wheels would be turning painting pictures on the head marbles of just what might be swimming in the muddy waters looking for your baits. On such adventures there was no time to be bored. Like a weasel type critter, no rock would be left unturned checking to see what lived under them. Trees would be climbed using the height for a better view of what might be another spot to head for. But a good part of the time was just spent sitting, watching and listening while ma nature entertained during the down time between bites. After a full day river side then arriving home, there were times mom would grab the garden hose and hose off the mud before allowing entrance into the wash room. “Get your butt in the tub” were always the first words to hit the ears bringing my young life back to reality.

    After being taught the ways of the river by Dad and getting trained on running the small boat it wasn’t long and my summers would be spent running the backwater sloughs and small lakes after Dad dropped me off and headed for work. This was a whole new world for this youngster and what a feeling of independence. These were the days before cell phones and Mom was totally against the decision to unleash her toddler but Dad eased her mind telling her it was time and her toddler was growing up. I believe my father seen the love for the river in my eyes and trusted I’d stay away from the main channel and avoid trouble and if by chance trouble found me, I’d find a way out of it.
    The boat was a trump card and opened up a whole new world of fishing. Soon most the time was spent casting until the arms just wouldn’t do it anymore instead of just bottom fishing. At first there would not be much to show for the efforts, but as time was spent on the vast backwater world of the Mississippi, plus reading every fishing magazine my hands could get on, things started falling into place.

    In no time there were favorite lures for Bass and Northern Pike being added to the old metal tackle box which was received from Grandma as a present. With lessons self taught the boat headed for current seams, deep water, Lily Pads, and Sunken Trees. With more and more time spent on the water there were an abundant number of favorite areas to fish and now Dad was reaping the rewards on weekends himself as he was chauffeured around from spot to spot. These are the adventures that make a boy feel like a young man while making your father proud of what you have learned and found.

    Soon Dad was giving weekend lessons on the main channel and this youngster was on the way to yet a bigger playground.
    Time was spent learning how to fish wing dams, troll current seams, pitch rip rap and so on. The fish being caught were getting bigger and the variety of species was unlimited. Going from the backwaters to the main channel alerted a new awareness of the surroundings. Larger boat traffic, barges, wing dams and channel markers were now being dealt with making for a boost in the testosterone levels of this young-un. Being allowed on the main channel was more important at the time than graduating high school. When the green light was received it felt like this young teen turned 40!

    By age 15 in 1975 (rats sold for good ching) and money was being made trapping. This opened my eyes to another whole new world on Pool 8….winter on the river. Were not talking fish with Dad and the crowd stuff, were talking out and about But that’s a whole other story.

    We often hear the saying “the good ole days” and these were the good ole days for myself. As we grow older our issues become bigger than “School and Parents”, hence the words from Mom and Dad as you grow up…”you don’t know how good you have it”!!! Now its kids of our own we worry about, finances, work, and whatever else we get involved in but there is one thing that has not changed for river rats or fishermen. Getting out on the water or ice is the best therapy for an over cluttered head.

    For at least the last ten years most adventures have been made with great friends, a lot of them met and made through IDO. Even at an older pace from the younger day and when alone, my bean cap still wanders at times while becoming involved with a sight or sound. The waters have a calming effect, fishing has just become something to do while I visit it for the therapy And the Mighty Mrs. is forever a learning experience as it changes from year to year keeping things on a learning curve

    Reminiscing through time while jotting this down put a tweak on my face more than once I’m a lucky Dude I thank my Parent’s for the introduction to the outdoors and I thank my at home family for putting up with me and enjoying it also!

    Here’s to us all hooked on the outdoors and the person that brought us into this addiction

    Hope you didn’t get bored with my ramblings, if you made it this far I guess not

    Bret

    mplspug
    Palmetto, Florida
    Posts: 25026
    #941256


    Sorry, my well documented ADD wouldn’t let me get beyond the second paragraph. If it is ant consolation, I liked the read and liked the direction it was headed in.

    Mike W
    MN/Anoka/Ham lake
    Posts: 13294
    #941257

    Very good ramblings Bret.

    trphyhuntr
    Pierce/ St. Croix Cty
    Posts: 89
    #941258

    Very nice Bret, I love reading those kind of stories. Brings back personal memories and reminds us how lucky we are to have had someone to introduce to the Great Outdoors.

    Sharon
    Moderator
    SE Metro
    Posts: 5455
    #941261

    Great story!

    targaman
    Inactive
    Wilton, WI
    Posts: 2759
    #941264

    Good read Bret. I would have to say we’re all pretty lucky to have been introduced to fishing and the outdoors. I can’t imagine myself replacing it with anything.

    jeff_jensen
    cassville ,wis
    Posts: 3053
    #941296

    Thank you Bret

    Randy Wieland
    Lebanon. WI
    Posts: 13478
    #941298

    Great read Bret. Amazing how we all can relate to those first tastes of freedom and how grown up we felt back then. I find myself reliving my childhood through my girls. Now that they are at “that” age, I find myself reflecting back very often.
    Dorothy Rosenlof – “Make your memories when your young and while you can. In the end, all you will have are your wonderful memories of a better time” She was 92 years old when she told me that, and still telling me her childhood stories.

    mikehd
    Dousman, WI
    Posts: 965
    #941306

    Wow, you’re fingers must have been smokin’ from all that typing.

    Great read buddy.

    ederd
    Northeast Iowa, Randalia
    Posts: 1537
    #941310

    Awesome read Bret, brought back some memories of my own!!

    Ed

    p4walleye
    Rochester, MN
    Posts: 733
    #941311

    very cool, thank you for sharing that- brought back tons of great memories.

    arklite881south
    Posts: 5660
    #941346

    What a great piece Bret!! How simple of a world many of us lived in when parents were able to drop kids off by the river to entertain themselves. My parents made me strap on my orange life jacket looking like a fool even while on shore, but never worried about stangers or abductions…… As Randy said so many of us feel so lucky to have had that sort of upbringing. Little did our parents know this small step on their part would end up being such a large leap in rooting our love for the water. I guess this is another reason a commonplace like IDO has us all bundled together where we are able to find other “Nuts” just like ourselves. Although many of us now have different careers and stressers in our lives we all share the commonbond of PASSION for the outdoors! I am thankful the technological advances that are literally at the fingertips of our kids these days simply weren’t as COOL when we were growing up. All of those things we learned and childhood philosophy class we held on the river banks simply would have been lost in the trance of a television, cell phone or video game.

    Sometimes it saddens me to see the hours spent texting or searching the internet instead of lifting up rocks on the river banks and talking face to face with friends. The world obviously is deemed far advanced since we were kids, but I don’t always believe for the better when it has to do with overall quality of life. I bet trapping rats gave ole Bret a lesson on money management too!! How cool Pal!!

    Again great read Bret!! Thanks so much for sharing!!

    mplspug
    Palmetto, Florida
    Posts: 25026
    #941400

    I think most of us can consider ourselves fortunate for growing up in areas where there was a variety of lakes, creeks and rivers to fish that were walking or biking distance.

    My memories as a child and fishing was the fishing and also how opening a lure catalog or fishing magazine was better than opening a Christmas present. I would also doodle out imaginary lakes complete with contours and quiz myself were I would fish depending on the season and conditions.

    Any of you guys have one of those moments as a youngster were you watched someone nailing the fish on a lure and you couldn’t wait to go out and buy your own? Two experiences stand out in my mind.

    The first was when we were vacationing in Park Rapids with the neighbors. My friends and I witnessed a guy with his kids catching pike right off the dock at the rate of about one every 5 minutes. He could cast this thing way out there. It was one of those old Bomber lures that had action like a Lazy Ike.

    The other time I remember wading in Long Lake with my brother and he was casting a Creek Chub (Lure, not the minnow) and catching pike. I am pretty sure I didn’t have to run out and buy one of those though, because my brother donated one or two to me.

    I should take the time to thank my brothers and father for finding time to take me fishing. My dad especially because I know fishing wasn’t exactly his favorite hobby, it was golf, but he always found time. Then there was my brother Joe who always took me when he went. He is the one who started me on catfish.

    Hmm, I’ll have to see if I can dig up the picture of dad and his 1#+ bluegill he caught. He sure was excited for a golfer.

    weldon
    Rochester, Mn
    Posts: 304
    #941402

    Nice story of which I can relate, as my mom would have to deal with my bringing home a stringer of small catfish from a local creek. Somehow it seems you were spoiled by having boats available and a excellent fishing location though. In ND, one fishes what is available and occasionally gets to fish a good body of water…

    I am wondering how this story would be written in years to come by my son who chooses to spend his time video gaming. I’m at a loss to think of what the context of the benefit of that story line would read like?

    bret_clark
    Sparta, WI
    Posts: 9362
    #941453

    Quote:


    Any of you guys have one of those moments as a youngster were you watched someone nailing the fish on a lure and you couldn’t wait to go out and buy your own?


    Watched an old timer fill a bucket full of dinner plate sized crappies using a Pinkie. I couldn’t get my can home fast enough to beg Mom to run me into town. She finally gave in and soon I was purchasing a whole cardboard card of Pinkies. That was big ching for a kid in them days.

    Glad the read yanked some memories from the back burners for us all

    amwatson
    Holmen,WI
    Posts: 5130
    #941637

    While my “younger” was more centered around chasing coyotes, the message is still the same

    Great read and I hope once school is done and I am done with all my hospital clinicals and ambulance time is completed, I can once again get back to enjoying the outdoors. It has been been put on the back burner for me for too long. With the stress of my career, the water and woods are the best therapy to ease a troubled mind.

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