My grandpa was as patient as could be, but would only “teach me once”. We would go out behind the hay barn and dig for worms. Gramps would turn the soil and I’d pluck everything that crawled. I remember the very first time he took me to his lucky spot. I got to sit on his lap as we drove the ’72 Olds; filled with smoke from his Menthol Cigarettes. On the way he told me “Now Chris, listen carefully and listen good. I’m gonna teach you all you need to know about how to catch fish. I’m only gonna show you once.” Well, we got way out in the country (not hard to do up North) and parked the green beast by a steel gate. We climbed through the fence and began the trek to the “honey hole”. I was 4 or 5. After about 1/2 mile we decended down to a small lake; a flowage really. He called it “No-No” lake. I found out years later why it was called that. I also found out years later that he had a key for that darned gate. But, I digress…
I pulled the hook towards me from the tip of a 10ft. cane pole. “Now pick a worm and I’ll show you how to put it on.” “Watch closely…I’m going to swing it out towards that group of lilly pads.” “Wait until yer bobber goes down and give it a yank.” So, there I sat…waiting. Finally my bobber went ‘plink’. I yanked. Do you know how much torque you can get from a 10′ pole. That poor sunny took flight and landed on the ground behind me. Grandpa laughed and said “I guess you got that part down.” “Now watch how I hold the fins down and wiggle the hook out.” “Got it”. I replied, “Yeah.” Then, he did the best thing he could have done. He left the worms, took his pole, and walked off down the shoreline. “Now don’t leave until I get back…and you better not get wet or gramma will skin us. Good luck.” I remember sitting there for a moment thinking this guy is crazy. Then I figured, if he thinks I can do it, I suppose I can. That was the best lesson I could have gotten. He would always tell me “Chris you can do it…just keep trying.” This message continued to resonate until the day he died. I remember getting letters from him while off to college reminding me never to quit…don’t give up…find a way…you can do it.
Anyway, Grandpa and I took countless walks down to “No-No”. I learned a lot about life from him and our fishing trips. I’m losing focus on the story but if feels good to think about Grandpa and all that he taught me. I work hard to instill those same lessons in my kids. I hope to do half the job he did.
Whew…enough of that. Anyway…let’s go catch some fish.
Rest in Peace Grandpa.