Apology

  • dave-barber
    St Francis, MN
    Posts: 2100
    #1256248

    Earlier today, I posted some comments regarding the much anticipated border battle. The Viking/Packer saga continued today as I am sure it will for a long time to come. Regardless, I posted comments on the thread that I have come to find out others took offense to. I am posting this message here to explain my actions and to clarify any misunderstandings.

    My comments were nothing more than FREINDLY banter. I did not attack anyone on this board for their views. In fact, earlier in the day, I received a lot of “smoking something” or “drinking something” comments that were directed to me. I, on the other hand, did not direct any comments to the IDA community. I did direct comments to the opponents and players. In my book, I believe public figures to be fair game. But from what I understand, others believe that I took it too far. Personally, I am not sure.

    In my line of business, I work with others all over the nation. I have endured many ribbings… Randy Moss, the Love Boat… you name it, the Vikings have not been without controversy (and more so than our Wisconsin rivals)… and I have heard it from MANY angles. A year ago I was in Seattle on a business trip. The Vikings were playing that Sunday against the seahawks… and I heard it the entire week every single day. I met with hundreds of people while conducting a training seminar and I heard it from all of them. What I mean to say is that banter created from rival teams is only that… Banter. None of what I said was intended to hurt any fellow IDA’ers. I did not make the post and remove the thread either. This was done without my knowledge. In fact, right after the game, I took my daughter to a movie only to come back to a PM from a member questioning my integrity and maturity and I found the post deleted. I knew nothing about what happened or what road the thread went down. It was not by my hand that the post was deleted (I do not have that ability on the board).

    We are all on this board for a similar reason. Fellowship in fishing and sportsmanship. So, to hopefully smooth any waters… I issue this apology for anyone who was offended by my words. My intension was freindly. But was apparently not taken as so. So, to my Wisconsin brethren, Here is to Farve and # 422

    absolute2ks
    Chippewa Falls, WI
    Posts: 674
    #612243

    Looked to me like a lot of people just having fun.

    If some people out there get this upset over something that is out of there controll, then what do they do when they have a real problem, I saw this thing all the time after the pack won the bowl, and then for a few years after and sometimes still now. PEOPLE IT ONLY A GAME!!!!!!!!!

    Dave don’t feel bad it’s just a nother day for some people.

    2K’S

    rkd-jim
    Fountain City, WI.
    Posts: 1606
    #612249

    First of all, I am a die-hard Packer fan and I saw nothing wrong with your post this morning. It was, as you say, just friendly banter. I caught the first half dozen replies to the post and was able to get a chuckle out of them. After the game I went to check the response to the outcome, and couldn’t find it. Whatever the reason that post was deleted, it was totally uncalled for. Granted, we are allowed to communicate here by following the rules of the site, but there are members here that take a lot of things way too seriously. That “happening” today in the Metrodome was a game……….. JUST A GAME!!! How can something so simple as friendly banter over a football “game” cause someone to be so negative that the “censorship gods” be called in? Someone needs a life.

    As I indicated before, I only saw the first half dozen replies. Maybe something was said later on that caused this to happen. It’s too bad. It’s just a game. I don’t see any reason why there was an apology given……Or expected.

    Brian Klawitter
    Keymaster
    Minnesota/Wisconsin Mississippi River
    Posts: 59992
    #612244

    I have to agree with you Jim…but what’s just a game to you and I, well there are some that really get into “just games”.

    I can’t even talk to my brother in law when a games on. The world is just blocked out when there’s some noise of the tube.
    But that’s his world.

    The only thing I’m realy confused over is that I thought Favor retired last year…or was it the year before that…or was it…

    James Holst
    Keymaster
    SE Minnesota
    Posts: 18926
    #612254

    Quote:


    First of all, I am a die-hard Packer fan and I saw nothing wrong with your post this morning. It was, as you say, just friendly banter. I caught the first half dozen replies to the post and was able to get a chuckle out of them. After the game I went to check the response to the outcome, and couldn’t find it. Whatever the reason that post was deleted, it was totally uncalled for. Granted, we are allowed to communicate here by following the rules of the site, but there are members here that take a lot of things way too seriously. That “happening” today in the Metrodome was a game……….. JUST A GAME!!! How can something so simple as friendly banter over a football “game” cause someone to be so negative that the “censorship gods” be called in? Someone needs a life.

    As I indicated before, I only saw the first half dozen replies. Maybe something was said later on that caused this to happen. It’s too bad. It’s just a game. I don’t see any reason why there was an apology given……Or expected.


    The thread turned nasty and wasn’t going to be getting any better any time soon. All I have to say is some here have some pretty thin skin regarding their favorite football teams and players.

    I read what Dave wrote. Did I find it to be the incite to riot that others did? No, I did not. Dave’s on staff here and decided to be the bigger man by throwing out a post trying to explain his position and that he meant no offense to anyone here on this site.

    I applaud Dave for that, even if many here would not have been offended by what he said.

    Brian Klawitter
    Keymaster
    Minnesota/Wisconsin Mississippi River
    Posts: 59992
    #612255

    Quote:


    I want to take this time to apologize to my two fishing buddies that I out fished 25 to 2 today.


    Hope you bought them a beer! Dang your mean!

    amfyoyo1
    Iowa
    Posts: 156
    #612260

    when people take themselves toooo seriously, humor becomes a weapon to them instead of what it really is. Humans are the only animals on earth the can laugh. The world needs more time to laugh.

    haywardbound
    New Brighton, MN
    Posts: 1107
    #612264

    Dave, I enjoyed your post, and thought it was funny! Don’t worry about what happened, it spun out of control and was not your fault.

    (I’m a Vikings fan).

    luer
    Colfax,Wi
    Posts: 184
    #612270

    Stab me with a treble,you’ll get Green and Gold.I took no offense and would expect you to back your team.With that said,you are a heckuva man for issuing a public apology.

    I look forward to the next meeting of the teams and hope to “hear” from you…even if you are color challenged!

    dave-barber
    St Francis, MN
    Posts: 2100
    #612282

    No Worries. I will be back But maybe a little lighter banter is in order from me… after all, I am on staff and need to represent IDA!

    snake_plissken
    Central, MN
    Posts: 97
    #612308

    Dave — I thought your post was all in good fun. It’s too bad some people can’t take a joke.

    I would like to apologize to anyone expecting to see football who has to watch the Queens and the Furs — and yes, I am a life-long Vikes and Gophers fan.

    steveo
    W Central Sconnie
    Posts: 4102
    #612329

    I admit I was one of the “thin-skinned” guys. Whatever team you follow you have to admit the touchdown record is something to behold. i just thought the “pill popping s****” comment was out of line. C’mon his addiction problems were 10 years ago. Isn’t there some new material the Vike fans can haul out? Please?

    chappy
    Hastings, MN
    Posts: 4854
    #612330

    Quote:


    I have to agree with you Jim…but what’s just a game to you and I, well there are some that really get into “just games”.

    I can’t even talk to my brother in law when a games on. The world is just blocked out when there’s some noise of the tube.
    But that’s his world.

    The only thing I’m realy confused over is that I thought Favor retired last year…or was it the year before that…or was it…


    Nothing wrong with what you said! It is fact,he was doing pills for a while there.You were only stating a fact. Let it go! THOSE PEOPLE EITHER NEED TO IGNORE WHAT IS BEING SAID OR JUST STATY AWAY AND NOT RESPOND.

    muskyman
    Arkansaw, Wisconsin
    Posts: 945
    #612337

    Holy cow Jay Leno makes a living doing this! Packer fan here and I didn’t have a problem with it, but maybe it was the name calling, from a staffer?

    rkd-jim
    Fountain City, WI.
    Posts: 1606
    #612350

    Quote:


    I have to agree with you Jim…but what’s just a game to you and I, well there are some that really get into “just games”.


    I really get into “the game” too, just as your brother-in-law does, but I don’t let it affect my reasoning and/or my sense of humor. That’s pathetic.

    rmartin
    United States
    Posts: 1434
    #612358

    But Jay Leno would have been drummed off the air had he said what was said in the post. Lenos’ jokes are current and the words chosen very carefully so as not to offend. Light hearted ribbing is fine, but one needs to know where to draw the line especially in a public forum. Lessons were learned and hopefully we can all keep it civil in the future.

    eyejacker
    Hudson, Wisconsin
    Posts: 1890
    #612361

    I have a suggestion which may rectumify (coined by my good fiend BrainK ) the situation. Send all non hunting /fishing posts the way of religious and political posts, maybe eliminate the General Discussion forum altogether. That should keep the subjects that provoke unbridled emotion and hostility under wraps, forever getting rid of any future “pill” references and/or “how many rings do you have” comments, after all both are a decade old! Just think of how tranquil and serene the waters will become!

    col._klink
    St Paul
    Posts: 2542
    #612364

    This will fix everything!

    hehehehehe

    rkd-jim
    Fountain City, WI.
    Posts: 1606
    #612365

    All this can be answered in one statement…”Political correctness is killing us.”

    kooty
    Keymaster
    1 hour 15 mins to the Pond
    Posts: 18101
    #612371

    You are such a girl for apologizing to the babies from the east.

    Just kidding ladies!!!! Just think, if we had 1/3 of an offense we could have beat the pack yesterday. Wouldn’t that make for some great banter today.

    dave-barber
    St Francis, MN
    Posts: 2100
    #612375

    Quote:


    You are such a girl for apologizing to the babies from the east.


    uh…. I mean….

    garvi
    LACROSSE WI
    Posts: 1137
    #612385

    Quote:


    Just think, if we had 1/3 of an offense we could have beat the pack yesterday. Wouldn’t that make for some great banter today.


    But you didn’t so it’s a mute point

    And if my aunt had testicles she would be my uncle

    See my point ??

    dave-barber
    St Francis, MN
    Posts: 2100
    #612387

    Quote:


    And if my aunt had testicles she would be my uncle

    See my point ??


    Uhm… Your aunt has gender identity issues?

    kooty
    Keymaster
    1 hour 15 mins to the Pond
    Posts: 18101
    #612393

    Quote:


    Quote:


    Just think, if we had 1/3 of an offense we could have beat the pack yesterday. Wouldn’t that make for some great banter today.


    But you didn’t so it’s a mute point

    And if my aunt had testicles she would be my uncle


    Unless you are from from Arkansas??? Or is it WI??

    col._klink
    St Paul
    Posts: 2542
    #612395

    Dave I expected more out you

    Those silly packer fans……………………

    What can you say these days

    FRIVERS2
    Posts: 240
    #612399

    I agree, the pill popping comment was clearly out of line. Yes, Favre was hooked at one time on drugs. But he recovered. Beyond that, since then his wife battled with cancer and he has had to deal with three deaths in his family.

    I also bleed Green and Gold, and may be light skinned, but did not appreciate the poster’s comments.

    James was right, this was getting out of hand.

    Mudshark
    LaCrosse WI
    Posts: 2973
    #612410

    Well Dave,I got a chuckle out of it and thought it was just that……banter…..a good post IMO
    So no apologies needed for this packer fan

    rkd-jim
    Fountain City, WI.
    Posts: 1606
    #612412

    Someone needs a time-out….

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