Anybody who knows me looks at me as a pretty decent guy. I have always reached out my hand and offered help to those in need and recently I have become the target of a few upset people. I love fishing vary much as it runs deep in my blood and anyone who shows an interest in this great hobby I will gladly take them fishing whenever I have an open spot in my boat or fish house.
I have brought a total of 8 newbies to pool 4 this year and they had an absolute blast. Starting with the first stop at Evert’s bait shop for minnows and a couple pointers on what has been working to put some fish in the boat. To the time on the water and listening to the people say, “I finally realize why you drive 120 miles one way to fish here” and taking pictures of every fish or eagle they see.
Recently I brought my 2 teenage soon to be step-daughters down and spent the day on the water with them. They had an absolute blast even though the fishing was slower than usual. They came home that night and crashed hard due to the fact that they got up at 4am that morning and fished all day and returned home with me around midnight that same day. The girl’s had to go to there dads on sunday for the week and upon arrival they began to tell him about how much fun they had and how they want to go again. He responded like this, you are never going fishing with him again, he is not your father and never will be. He then called me and chewed me up one side and down the other for doing anything and everything with HIS children and how I am not going to be doing it any more.
The question I have is this: What would you do in this situation and how would you handle an angry father who does absolutely nothing with his kids and yells at them all the time? Am I doing what I should be doing when I include his children in what me and my son are doing? If I am wrong please help me out with some pointers so I don’t continue to do the wrong thing.
I’m sorry for bringing my personal business to the site and if it is not welcome please let me know.
All replies are greatly appreciated. Thank you.