Thanks Guys!!

I’ve dealt with a lot of stuff in my life, and thought I had a pretty good sense of control. Well, control really isn’t the best word, but I’m so numb right now I can’t really compose what I want to say. Nothing has prepared me for what I’m working through in my family. I’ve always been the over the top analytical thinking person and making sound decisions based on what i know to be fact.
Now I’m struggling through things I don’t fully understand or have any control over. Relinquishing control to other is very tough for me and causing a huge amount of stress and anxiety.
Over the last year, I have gotten so many PMs asking me why I haven’t posted many reports or why some of the “tones” of my responses on here aren’t like my normal self. From a bunch of guys and a few women that don’t know me from Jack S#!^. I’m not ready or want to go into a public place and state any details of the circumstances in my family. Its not denial, just not a time or place for it yet.
But I just have to say THANK YOU to so many that have taken a concern in my life. You have no idea what that has meant and more importantly how much that helped.
Now, more than ever, I’m on the outside looking in trying to find solutions to a problem that I can’t personally fix. The phone calls and PMs have been a pillar of strength that I appreciate so much. I’m amazed in the lowest times that looking at my phone and seeing a missed call, email, or PMs here have really picked me up and keep me looking forward.
The friends I have made here are incredible including the so many acquaintances. In a time of need, you all are there for me. I can’t thank you enough. Please, those that I have talked to, I ask you to please keep things confidential. Jeff, (you know which one) thanks for sharing so much information yesterday. You were spot on on handling the situation and it made things go leaps and bounds forward. The days ahead are scary and we have hope. Thank you for being there for me

Randy,

I pray that whatever it is that life is throwing at you, the good lord will guide you in the right direction. Keep the faith and it’s always good to get the perspective of someone not involved. We are all here for you if needed.

I lost my son 11 years ago yesterday, and I will tell you too Randy that the overwhelming support and comfort coming from the folks here was so appreciated. It has been a great site for friendships as well as fishing info. Oh sure, you get a jab once in awhile for a posting as some just cant resist to inflame others, BUT WHEN ITS THE GETTING YOU DOWN STUFF THAT COMES ONLINE – YOU GUYS AND GALS ARE THE BEST!!!

Good Luck Randy with whatever the issues are.

FISHINFOOL

Hang in there Randy. Wishing the best for you and your family.

Randy,

My prayers go out to you and whatever you might be dealing with in your life. Thank God you have your hunting, trapping, and fishing to give you your peace and solitude you so much need at this point in your life….Hang in there Randy.
And thank you so much for everything you have brought to this site, it’s appreciated by so many.

Good luck to you and your family while you are dealing with challenges. We all go through rough times in our lives and it’s what we do at those times and how we come through them that often shape us into who we are. Try to stay positive no matter what and keep faith that you will be able to work through the tough times. Also, don’t forget to accept the support that is offered – it’s not a sign of weakness, it’s a sign of wisdom.

Best of luck to you and your family.

Ha Randy, not sure whats going on. Prayers sent from all the Bennetts. I have been so busy with my brother in the hospital couple of times lately, he had a colon cancer operation and My mother put a scare in all of us at the same time. She was in the hospital a couple of days. But is doing fine now. Shoot me a e-mail or what ever if you need anything. Sitting around today with the daughter and the dog waiting for the game.

Prayers to you and your family Randy!

FDR

Randy. I can tell you that a guy that I have ‘known’ all my life , from the first time I met you.. and I can tell you that I love you like a brother.. and that you are not allow in these times.. I have another guy who, again, is NOT IN CONTROL.. and that’s when you have to let God take control.. and that I will be praying for you.. and you know that I don’t jest in stuff like that.. Love ya brother..

Hey Randy, Hope everything works out well. I really enjoyed our lengthy phone conversation last month, you’re a very generous man and deserve all the best.
Take care and God’s blessings.

The good Lord gave us two legs because man needs support & balance. Consider your friends as another leg to prop you up through difficult times. As we age the macho man stuff we grew up with seems to make less and less sense. Family, good friends and a belief system (religion) are very important. Keep doing what you do and don’t hesitate to lean on your friends for help when needed.

Hope everything works out Randy. Try to keep positive outlook it will help. Remember IDO members are always there for you.Prayers sent.

Randy:

You know da phone number and you know that I got dat bartender psychologist listening ear, so if you ever need it you call!!! God Speed, keep your chin up and we’ll talk soon!!!

Mark

You and your family are in our prayers my friend……

Randy,

My prayers go out to you and your family.

Life has many ways of making you stronger- rarely a fun situation. Prayers sent- you can handle whatever you have been dealt! Your post reminds me of a question a guest speaker for one of the teams I coached stated. How can you tell if an individual needs encouragement?

Anyone know the answer?

Randy,
I will add you and your family to our church prayer list, as well as my own. May God continue to carry you and your family in his loving hands and give you all the guidance and strength you need to get through this difficult time. If you ever need to talk with complete confidentiality, please don’t hesitate to call and/or email me. I just had a total knee replacement done, so I have ALL the time in the world to talk and maybe help a friend in need. Take care and God Bless! Jeff

Hey Randy; I’ve never had the pleasure to meet you yet but be assured that my family at home as well as a lot of the IDO family are praying for you and yours buddy. Keep the faith.

Answer is if they are breathing from post above-

My thoughts are with you Randy. You have all my respect. Hopefully the next card dealt to you is a good one. Please give me a call if I can help with any legal issues.

Prayers sent. pain is like a knife, sharp at first and only time can dull the edge. Time steals the gifts we received in our youth. Having friends and family gives us reason to endure and possibly overcome some of the obstacles in our lives. I pray you are able to overcome this issue, and if not, find the strength to endure it’s effect. God Bless.

Wishing you and your family all the best as you work through whatever it is life has dealt you. About all I can add is this : Proverbs 3:5-6
I know what you mean. I know very few here on IDO personally, but when I lost my dad, then 3 years later my mom, and three years later my sons and I in our accident,what was shared here by IDO members was tremendously uplifting….
Peace be with you

Thank you everyone. You’ve got my PM box about filled and it sure is reassuring to know you care. It not a legal issue, its health related to one of my daughters. My girls are my lifeline, my hopes, dreams, and everything I live for. Having something happen to them is worst than having my heart ripped from my chest.
Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. my motto of the day

A parents nightmare Randy. I honestly don’t think a parent can love someone more than their children.
She’s in our prayers along with your family.

This talk was shared by my boss today at our staff meeting. i think it applies beyond the work place. Positive energy goes a long way. All the best to you and your family!

http://www.ted.com/talks/shawn_achor_the_happy_secret_to_better_work.html