If the question is COULD you live entirely off of government and private welfare-type programs, the answer is “yes”. If you’re motivated enough to make it your full time job, it is certainly possible. And by “motivated” I mean by any factor. Maybe it’s lazyness, maybe it’s greed, or maybe it’s fear that your children will go hungry, get sick, or be homeless.
My wife and I are supporters of a charity in St. Paul called Joseph’s Coat. Joseph’s Coat operates a free store on 7th Street in St. Paul and provides free clothing and household goods to those in need.
What I’ve leared through helping this charity is that the poor are, in about 90% of the cases NOT who I thought they were. I was like many of you guys, thinking that most people who are on welfare, food stamps, etc were lazy Welfare Queens who had made a career out of having babies and milking the system at every turn so they could stay home and watch Judge Judy, smoke cigs, and eat chips and fast food all day.
What the people at Joseph’s Coat opened my eyes to is that most of the poor are:
A. Poor because of some dramatic life change that was either partially or totally out of their control. For example, a woman with 3 kids whose boyfriend suddenly decideds he doesn’t want to play house anymore and abandons them. She still has her job, but suddenly she’s alone AND still has 3 mouths to feed and provide clothing and shelter for.
Another common example during the great recession was people who were relatively well off, but the loss of 1 or more incomes found them in desperate straights when the economy kept gettting worse. Some of it may have been down to bad choices, but there was also a bad luck factor involved and don’t fool yourselves my brothers, it could happen to any of us. It only takes a couple of bad cards in the hand your dealt.
B. Working, but not working enough or being paid enough to make ends meet. The majority of the shoppers at Josheph’s Coat are working or have household members who are working, but simply cannot make enough to keep themselves above water financially.
C. Cannot sustain themselves because of substance abuse and/or menatal illness. There are virtually no programs to provide any significant help for these people relative to the huge need.
I understand that it’s upsetting, but I try to be more compassionate these days because of what I understand now: Most people do NOT want government assistance. Sure, there are Welfare Queens and Kings out there, but in most cases it’s legitimate need.
BTW, if any of you out there have a basement or garage full of clothing and household goods waiting for you to give up enough fishing time to “get around to having a garage sale”, please get in touch! I can take all that off your hands AND I even come and pick it up AND give you a great tax deduction.
We especially need good children’s clothes, all manner of baby care items, and good sturdy men’s and women’s work clothing. I have 10 or more working men per week that come in needing a decent pair of boots!
Can you help? Please get in touch via PM.
Grouse