Holy crap this brings back some good memories!
Maybe I have a different mentality then most but let them go and do their thing. Naturally your gonna drill your boyfriend on what they talked about and all that good stuff. If you respect your Father’s opinion, then you’ll ask a few days later what he thinks.
The boyfriend needs to be himself and pave his own way. Dad wants to see how respectful the kid is and have a glimpse of how he thinks he’ll treat you.
My first trip out with the future FIL was being tossed to the blood thirsty wolves. But then I was an arrogant SOB that didn’t take crap from anyone and I was very head strong on being myself and not phoney.
Father in law shown up at my house 1/2 hour late, with my two future BIL’s and their couple ding-bat friends. To make the day more interesting, I didn’t know they considered having “a beer” was a case of pabst per guy. I don’t drink outside of my house. Anyways, they set up their tip-ups, made base camp, and downed a heck of a lot of beer. For me, Lowrance Green box, 1 jig rod, hand auger and an assortment of W5 jig rapalas. I put on a serious clinic. As much crap as they could dish out about beating my , I laughed in their drunken faces and stuck one fish after another. Father in Law to be finally walked out by me, set a beer down by my locator, and said “Your pretty dam serious about fishing!” I thanked him for the offer of the beer and handed it back to him. He stood there for a while and finally started some asking more serious questions about me and what I wanted to do with my life.
I honestly don’t know what was said after they dropped me off or what was said to my now wife. But I was never offered another beer – he kept pepsi in the fridge and had one out for me whenever I walked in the door, never questioned me getting his daughter home at 3:00am, and always insists on paying for everything.
As for the BIL’s, not that bad of guys. They still give me crap, but when it comes to who would kick who’s , I get a lot of respect from them. Anyways, that was my first experience with my Father in Law and the boys.