Oh look out……………. here I come!
Just kiddin’! Great discussion guys and points to be considered on both sides. Here’s some more to soak up:
3rd world countries are truly reflective of their opportunity levels. The richer the govenment, the poorer the people (pay attention………….Kerry’s gunnin’ for office!). Tradition vs. progress. Control vs. freedom.
Living in a prosperous nation, maybe we don’t appreciate the simple things the way we should but I too disagree in feeling that wanting a bigger, faster, more technologically advanced whatch-ma-do-hummer gives us a character flaw. That should only become an issue when priorities are being ignored. If you sink the family into 10 years of high debt for a boat but don’t invest in you’re children’s education, someone might have a bone to pick. If my children are facing dusty cupboards and I walk in with a new Legend Elite, I think that’s a character flaw.
But prosperity brings the ability to reward one’s self for the fruits of their labors. Even if we used nothing but solar energy, theirs still a bigger, faster, sharper, more effective, etc. ‘something’ that will come along, out of necessity or sheer desire. I don’t think you guys should get down on yourselves for being blessed. If you’ve stepped on somebody’s toes along the way, you know what or what not to do next time. Move forward while growing as a person.
What happened to fishing? Nothing. Fishing is still fishing. Only the methods and availabilities changed. Some guy used a depth finder once and thought, “if only it would show me the fish!”. Hello graph. From there, another somebody gets a new idea for their own product or regarding another. “I can improve this!” It’s progress from some fisherman somewhere, wanting to improve something of his own experience and strives to take it to the next level. Better rods, better reels, better line, better boat, better lures, and on and on and on.
My dad rolls his eyes too but my dad didn’t have the prosperity I have. Not even now. Their lives are different. My dad knows he doesn’t “need” that stuff to fish but he seems to really enjoy watching me experience something on a level that he knew, deep inside, is a level he wish he would’ve had at my age. My dad enjoys watching my prosperity as much as I like seeing my kids better off than I had it at their age. He loves looking at all the tackle and playing with all the gear………..even using it sometimes, but he’ll still stick to his “needs”, because his life is different.
I don’t think we should confuse prosperity with greed. Purchases for materialism. Availability for frivilousness. Or participation as folly. Even if it’s “all about me”, if it’s not causing irresponsibility, is it wrong?
A guy can take $40K and buy a fancy boat, a piece of property, a very nice new vehicle, or invest it. Is any of the choices better or worse? It’s not the objects, it’s the circumstances behind the scenes that determines character. Investing may seem wiser but what good is money if you don’t do something with it? Nothing wrong in stockpiling it either. Money isn’t good or bad. It’s ammoral. It simply creates choices. Progress and prosperity has created and will continue to create choices.
Every point shared is a valid one, but the core truth lying behind this whole discussion is that there is only virtue in being virtuous. There’s no virtue in being poor. There is no virtue in being rich. If it’s your opinion that something is overkill, don’t buy it. Don’t use it. But don’t place judgment on the guy who’s created the ability to afford some luxuries just because it’s unrelatible.
I don’t understand a $20,000+ boat…………. but I’d like to!
I don’t understand a $500,000 home…………. but I’d like to!
I don’t understand living everyday doing only the things I love to do………… but I’d like to!
I don’t understand donating 1 billion dollars to charity……. but I’d like to!
If I work, and earn, and create……… the avenues that bring such understandings, I will only be in accordance to my efforts. If the next guy didn’t do that for himself, he’s not a lesser guy, he just chose differently………… and I really think we need to cut some guys some slack who have simply chosen to choose differently.
I am looking for a bigger boat with a bigger motor instead of owning 3 fishing rigs! The first half of the sentence makes more sense than the last half does…………. but I’ll likely still never own less than 2 boats. That doesn’t make me greedy, underhanded, selfish, or a lesser charactered individual. It just makes me priviledged, blessed, and very thankful for being fortunate enough to experience it. It wasn’t given to me……… I had to earn it……….
Sorry for all the WIND……….. but you know how I get! Thanks for the patience guys!