Piling on with Iowa contingent, get a decent thermometer. They don’t have to be expensive. Don’t be afraid of the meat, it’s just meat. experiment a little with different cuts and temps. I like tenderloin a litle more well done than a NY Strip – not overcooked, just a little more well done. I also like ribeyes a little more well done than most folks do, it get the fat and connective tissue to melt within the meat better than it would be rare.
Add ons are good – mushrooms. deg[azed frying pan juices with red wine or a touch of balsamic vinegar. Meat without addons is also good, a little salt and pepper and you are on your way.
Enjoy with wine or beer. Don’t let the wine snobs fool you, wine doesn’t have to be a dry red and beer is, well… beer! If you don’t drink alcohol, black iced tea is a nice astringent compliment to steak.
Most of all, have fun and enjoy yourself!