I have the same problem and am interested in hearing more on this. I know that when you look at a new boat, motor, trailer package, dealers have a tendency to put too light of a trailer underneath. Because of this, tire wear and other problems can be common. I’ve always been told to be sure your trailer has double the carrying capacity of the weight of your boat and trailer. To help combat weight issues, I’ve always towed my boat(on longer trips) with nothing in it and a very low fuel tank and I don’t fill up until I get where I’m going. My fuel tank holds 36 gallons, so it makes quite a difference whether it’s full or empty.
Good luck in your hunt for a solution and please keep me posted.
Mike