Before you rip up the threads on the head, have you tried heating the bottom of the plug with a torch?
Obviously, you have to be careful with this and start with just a little heat, being sure to let the plug cool completely BEFORE you put the socket to it as you never want to remove a hot spark plug.
I wouldn’t heat it as aggressively as a stuck bolt, but I’d be tempted to try just a little heat and see what happens. Given that the brute force technique is likely to tear up the threads anyway, is there anything to lose?
And yes, obviously you don’t want to heat it so much that you risk warping the head, or other damage like drawing the temper of the threads. But I’d still try this as I’ve freed up a lot of stuck bolts with a little heat, it does work.
Grouse