I have shot several deer past 40 yds thru mesh with expandables and fixed heads. A while back I did a bunch of testing with different heads at different yardages thru mesh, just wanted to see for myself. The only expandable head I had a problem with thru mesh was Rage. Never did shoot past 60 yards. I leave my windows open for turkey.
And yes, I have seen different types of mesh that come with different blinds. All of my shooting was done thru the Double Bull mesh, real fine headnet type mesh. Some of the “cheaper” blinds had mesh that was like 2-3x thicker. I would not any expandable thru that style mesh.