Pay off your debt as fast as possible. I think Ramsey suggest paying off the lowest balance first and then rolling that payment into another loan once it’s paid off (debt snowball). That’s a good strategy to build some momentum/morale, but I think the best thing in the long run is to pay off the highest interest rate first(of course, the different might be negligible depending on balances/rates, a few hundred bucks over the course of 5 years isn’t too meaningful). Either way, the key is to be extremely diligent about paying it off, make more than minimum payments if possible.
Do everything you can to not take on more debt(drive that car into the ground). On this front, using the value of your current vehicle to trade in to something new might result in ‘the same monthly payment, that we can totally afford right now so why wouldn’t we want a new car?’ is not always a slam dunk. My sister does this crap all the time and it just locks you in to another 3-5 years of car payments. Repairs seem costly at the time, but it’s rare to pay more in repairs for a reliable used car than it is to pay monthly payments on a new one.
Renting is not throwing money away, no matter what anyone tells you. House prices are continuing to climb, don’t buy in to the bubble. Loan interest, PMI, property tax, repairs, maintenance, closing costs, all fit under the ‘throwing your money away’ category, and are things you don’t need to worry about if you are renting.
I won’t say ‘never buy a house’, but really do some research and make sure it’s the right move. There is NOTHING wrong with renting. I’ve lived in my house for two years and I’ve paid thousands in interest already on my mortgage, $2k on a new AC, $2.5k on a new furnace, $1k on a new washer dryer that broke, $3k on required tree removal, property tax, snowblower, lawnmower, etc.
I won’t see a return on any of that money. If you already have a lot of debt and will be ‘stretching things thin’ to get a house, what will happen if you lose your job? Or a medical emergency? Again, renting is okay.
Lastly, BUDGET. I’m terrible at this, but trying to get better. Setup a mint.com account(it’s free) or something and track where your money is going, you would be surprised how much money goes to non-essential spending. Our problem is food. It’s very easy to try and think you can budget in your head, “car payment is $300, rent is $1200, student loans is $500, that should leave me $1200 every month, we can totally afford to buy a boat/car/house!”. But when you actually dig in, you don’t think about the $300 in gas, $300 in groceries, $300 eating out, $100 at HH, etc.