If you are looking for a place that has a bar and cooks your fish JRs and West Winds are probably your best options. Personally I like fishing the east shore more early as the ice seems more consistent.
I’ve only done the early ice red trip 5 times now, and I’d echo what everyone else says. Find a place that gets you out to 8 or 9′ early on, stay quiet and away from people as much as possible and you will be in good shape. I am not sure one resort is “better” than another early on unless you are concerned about bar/restaurant access.