Very good idea. I don’t ever remember hearing of such a tradition but I like it.
We lost little grandma (to my kids) after the holidays last year, so this is the first year without her. Seems we all just keep getting closer to the end of the line with each holiday season.
I remember the holidays as a kid and think, wow- where did the time go! I can’t believe how many friends & family are no longer with us.
I also wonder if there will be holiday gatherings once the wife & I are gone. Our grown kids did do the dishes this year but I’m not sure they would go thru the whole holiday meal thing if we didn’t.