I can see both sides but 100% agree it’s an overreaction to an incident that a neck guard wouldn’t have changed.
My youth association mandated them a couple years back in the 90s. Kids all hated them and wore them super loose until they got thrown away. I remember Canadian kids always had them growing up too, no idea if they still do.
I’m in rural MN but for young kids just starting hockey (mites and termites or whatever your association calls it) $150 pieces of equipment couldn’t be further from reality. The vast majority look like they’re using mom or dads 25 year old skates or fully equipped from play it again sports clearance bin. Again that’s rural mn, I’m sure it’s different in the burbs. Looking at Google youth neck guards are $15-$25 and I’m guessing that will be the most common, so not a huge deal if they’re available.
Skate cuts happen but they’re almost always on the leg. I have 6″ double bladed scar on the inside of my thigh. Was a very clean cut, super wide almost like a circle opened up. Didn’t hurt at all or bleed much, I finished the shift then looked under my breezers when I got to the bench. Kid next to me saw it and puked immediately